What does personal care mean?

Personal care is support with private everyday routines such as washing, bathing, dressing, toileting, continence care, oral care and grooming. The exact support is based on the individual's assessed needs and preferences.

Will a carer do everything for me?

Not necessarily. We aim to support you to do as much as you can and want to do for yourself. The care plan should identify where help is needed and where independence can be maintained.

Can I say no to personal care?

Where you are able to make the decision yourself, you have the right to accept or refuse care. A carer should not simply proceed because personal care is listed in a care plan. If a refusal creates a significant concern, it should be recorded and handled appropriately rather than ignored or forced.

Can personal care include help with continence?

Yes. Support with toileting and continence products can form part of personal care where this is agreed in the care plan.

Can carers help with oral hygiene and dentures?

Yes. Oral care, including support with dentures where required, can be included within the agreed personal care routine.

Can carers help with shaving, hair care or makeup?

Yes. Grooming and appearance are part of personal care and can be supported according to the person's preferences.

Can you provide personal care for someone living with dementia?

Yes, where the person's needs can be safely met through the agreed care arrangement. The approach should be adapted to the person's communication, routines and responses, and the care plan should be reviewed as needs change.

Can I request a male or female carer?

REQUIRES CARE & CARERS CONFIRMATION. If Care & Carers can accommodate gender preferences where staffing allows, this should be stated clearly but not guaranteed unless it can always be delivered.

How long is a personal care visit?

REQUIRES CARE & CARERS CONFIRMATION. The website should explain minimum visit durations and how visit length is agreed once current operating arrangements are confirmed.

How much does personal care cost?

REQUIRES CARE & CARERS CONFIRMATION. If personal care follows the standard visiting home care rate, publishing or clearly explaining the pricing structure would reduce uncertainty for families.

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Personal Care That Protects Your Dignity

Respectful, discreet support with washing, dressing, toileting and other private routines, provided in your own home and in the way that feels right for you.

Asking for help with personal care can feel very difficult. You may be comfortable accepting support with some things and want to keep doing others for yourself. You may have clear preferences about how care is provided, who supports you and how much help you want.

At Care & Carers, we start by listening. We agree what support is needed with you, record your preferences in your care plan and aim to help you remain as independent as safely possible.

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What Can Personal Care Include?

The exact support depends on the person's assessed needs, abilities and preferences. It may include help with:

Washing, showering and bathing

Support at the sink, in the shower or with bathing, depending on what the person prefers and what has been assessed as safe.

Mobility during personal care

Support to move safely during personal care, using agreed equipment and techniques where these have been assessed as appropriate.

Dressing and undressing

Help choosing clothes, getting dressed and undressed, and maintaining the person's preferred appearance.

Toileting

Respectful support using the toilet and with associated hygiene needs.

Continence care

Support with continence products and agreed routines, provided discreetly and according to the care plan.

Oral care

Support with brushing teeth, mouth care and dentures where required.

Hair, shaving and grooming

Help with hair care, shaving, skincare, makeup and everyday grooming according to the person's preferences.

Getting up and going to bed

Support with morning and evening routines where this forms part of the care plan.

Where a person is able to make their own decisions, they remain in control of what support they accept. A carer should explain what they are doing, seek consent, respect a refusal and give the person time to make choices. Preferences can include how a routine is carried out, what products are used, what time care takes place, what clothing is chosen and the level of help provided.

Where communication is more difficult, carers should still involve the person as much as possible and pay attention to verbal and non-verbal signs of comfort, distress or refusal.

Privacy and Dignity in Practice

Dignity is not an abstract promise. It is reflected in small practical details during every visit.

Closing doors and curtains before personal care begins

Explaining each step before providing assistance

Not rushing intimate routines unnecessarily

Using respectful language and the person's preferred name

Letting the person do as much as they can for themselves

Respecting personal, cultural and religious preferences

Keeping personal information private and discussing sensitive matters discreetly

Stopping and reassessing if the person becomes uncomfortable or distressed

Keeping the person appropriately covered and only exposing the area being supported

What dignity means here

The person should still feel like themselves, in control of their own home and involved in their own care.

Supporting Independence, Not Taking It Away

It can be tempting to do everything for someone because it seems quicker. That is not always the best care.

If someone can safely wash part of themselves, choose their clothes, brush their hair or complete part of a routine, we should support that independence rather than automatically taking over.

The amount of help can also change from day to day. A person may need more support when they are tired, unwell or recovering from hospital, and less at other times.

Care should respond to the person in front of us, not simply repeat a fixed sequence of tasks.

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Personal Care for Someone Living With Dementia

Personal care can become more difficult when someone is living with dementia. They may not understand why help is being offered, may feel uncomfortable with an unfamiliar person or may become anxious if a routine is rushed or changed.

A familiar approach can help. We take time to understand the person's usual routine, preferred products, communication style and what tends to reassure them.

Carers should approach calmly, explain what is happening, offer choices where possible and avoid turning personal care into a confrontation.

If a person becomes distressed or refuses care, the response should be guided by the circumstances, their care plan and their rights. Forcing routine personal care is not an acceptable substitute for understanding why the person is uncomfortable.

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Personal Care After Illness or a Hospital Stay

Someone who was previously independent may temporarily need help with washing, dressing, toileting or getting around after illness, surgery or a hospital stay. The level of support can be reviewed as strength and confidence return. Personal care does not have to mean a permanent loss of independence.

If needs change after discharge, we can assess the current situation and agree the appropriate support at home.

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Care Planned Around You

Before personal care begins, we need to understand more than which tasks require support.

What the person can do independently

Where help is needed and how much

How the person prefers care to be provided

Mobility and any equipment used

Skin integrity or areas of concern that need to be reported appropriately

Continence needs

Communication needs

Cultural, religious and personal preferences

Known risks within the home or care routine

What matters to the person and what helps them feel comfortable

We then record the agreed support in the care plan so carers have clear guidance about both what needs to be done and how the person wants it done.

Trained, Vetted and Professionally Supported Carers

Welcoming someone into your home to provide personal care involves a significant level of trust.

Our carers are trained, supervised, vetted and insured, and enhanced DBS checks are obtained before carers are authorised to work with clients. Personal care is a regulated activity, and Care & Carers is registered with the CQC to provide regulated care services within the conditions of its registration. Where a particular task requires additional competency, equipment or assessment, it should only be provided where the appropriate arrangements are in place.

HOW THIS SUPPORT WORKS

Personal Care and Medication Support

Personal care visits often sit alongside other parts of someone's home care routine.

For example, a morning visit might include support to get washed and dressed, prepare breakfast and provide agreed medication support. An evening visit might include changing into nightwear, personal care and support with the bedtime routine.

Where medication support is required, it should be assessed and recorded separately within the care plan, with the appropriate training and competency requirements in place.

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Personal Care as Part of Home Care

Care That Fits Your Day

Personal care does not have to be experienced as an isolated task. It can form part of a wider home care visit that includes meals, medication, mobility support, companionship or practical help around the home.

This can make visits feel more natural and allows support to be planned around the person's overall day rather than around a single care task.

When More Support Is Needed

A person's care needs can change over time. If short home care visits are no longer enough, we can discuss whether additional visiting care, night support or live-in care may be more appropriate.

The right solution depends on the individual's needs, risks, routines and home circumstances. We should not increase care simply because a service exists. We should agree the level of support that is actually required.

How We Arrange Personal Care

Start with a conversation

Tell us what is happening, what help is currently needed and what is important to the person receiving care.

We assess the person's needs

We discuss abilities, risks, routines, preferences and how the person wants care to be provided.

We agree the care plan

The plan records the support required and the person's individual preferences, so carers have clear guidance.

Care begins

The carer provides the agreed support in the person's own home, with privacy, dignity and independence kept central to the visit.

We review when needs change

If circumstances change, the care plan can be reviewed and adjusted.

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